Like children, you love to explore, you love variety, and therefore you become easily bored. You don't take life as seriously as most other people. You enjoy the companionship and intellectual playfulness of one another. You both love to talk. Variety and change are the bread and butter of your lives, and although you may occasionally wish that life was more settled and less hectic, you know that such an existence would be much too dull for you!
You have certain potential weaknesses in common, which come to the fore when you are together: you are too ready to give up
(on a project or a relationship) when it becomes difficult or demanding. You also tend to live in your head and avoid paying attention to your feelings. Together you may get caught up in word games, intellectual sparring, and light banter. You use humour to gloss over serious topics and deep emotional issues.
You are attracted to one another's wit, humour, playful intelligence, and mental agility. You share an eager curiosity about everything and a restlessness with staid people or situations. You both need a lot of mental stimulation and you thrive on talking and interacting with a wide spectrum of people.
Both of you respond logically or intellectually to situations, and you may ignore or simply be unaware of your own (or others') feelings. For instance, when asked "how do you feel about it', you are likely to say "I think." rather than responding with a feeling. You like to keep your interactions "light" because you are very uncomfortable with emotional displays, tears, or complex emotional dilemmas for which there are no logical solutions.
Your emotional detachment and tendency to make light of things that, for other people, are heavily charged with emotion can be very frustrating to some people. They may feel you are superficial or that you don't care enough. But the two of you are quite similar and you have a rapport that enables you to understand one another's humour and style.
You enjoy each other's company immensely and you put each other in a happy mood. You make each other laugh and you feel very open, loose, and jovial around each other. You will also include others in your lives, expand your circle of friends, and allow one another a good deal of freedom, rather than being exclusive or possessive about one another. There is a great deal of generosity between you, and you may benefit one another financially and materially as well as emotionally. A wonderful friendship!
In your relationship there will always be an element of eccentricity and spontaneity, and of encouraging each other to be free and uninhibited. Even if one or both of you is usually rather conservative or possessive, you can and will be less so with one another. You are not meant to be too tight, exclusive, or heavy-handed with one another; you need to give one another a lot of space and freedom.
At times there is a rather impersonal and detached feeling between you - not necessarily because you are distancing yourselves emotionally, but because you are relating to one another intellectually, as autonomous, thinking individuals, rather than as a couple.
There is a great similarity in your moods, instinctive responses to life, and emotional needs. Many of your personal tastes and habits are also similar. This similarity in temperaments promotes domestic harmony and a naturally cooperative feeling for each other. You enjoy making a home together or living together, as you instinctively know what makes your partner comfortable and happy.
When you are together, deep emotions are intense, compelling, irrational energies within both of you come into play. Definitely, if you are together for any length of time, you will both undergo an emotional transformation, a soul cleansing, for being together will dredge up all of your unfinished emotional business and feelings you may not even have believed yourselves capable of. This may feel like a "fatal attraction", one that is irresistible even if one or both of you wants to run the other way.
With sexually, your greatest pleasure may come from gentle, sensuous touching and stroking. Intercourse is important to you, however, you can be quite satisfied in a relationship that is stacked with variety and verbal communication. Bedroom movies, toys and gadgets may interest you and your partner. Acting out sexual fantasies can be quite fulfilling. You will grow bored in your relationship together if the sexual and physical expression is always the same.
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