Gemini natives possess a lively and thought-oriented approach to affairs of the heart. They adore being captivated in a mental sense and are dynamically active. Any Gemini love interest will probably, first and foremost, be a friend and a sweetheart second. Being able to share and discuss new thoughts, new ideals and everything the Gemini individual conceives and learns will be important qualities in a relationship. This is a talkative and communicative Sign and the Gemini mind is constantly sifting through information. Thus, these are individuals who often speak before they think and although their words are not intended to inflict pain, can fall flat when they fail to follow through on an intention or promise. It is not unusual the the partner of a Gemini native to feel abandoned and unimportant when Gemini discovers a new and fascinating subject or person to explore...it is then that words from the past can become empty and hurtful. However, when Gemini natives are at their best, there is no more intruiging, joyful and enjoyable partner to be found in the entire Zodiac. When that is backed up by feelings of wholeness and completeness...frequently the very things Gemini seeks from a partnership...these are dynamic and loyal souls. Physically romantic interludes tend to be voyages of the mind for those governed by Gemini...they experience the height of their passion via thoughts and what sensations mean to them. These are open-minded individuals who are experimental but not necessarily driven by passion to engage in new techniques and adventure. Rather, it is curiosity that will compel natives of Gemini to embark upon fresh discoveries. They bring wit and laughter to an intimate situation and can be disheartened...even shocked...that their partners may not always go along with the ever-present sense of humor. Here, desires are prone to come and go with amazing speed and suddenness. In short, those ruled by Gemini can turn off equally as quickly as they can turn on. It is not in the Gemini nature to wait for anyone...and that includes a mate who needs a little more time to feel stimulated. To achieve longevity in a romantic affair, the Gemini native requires friendship, companionship and a partner who can share in mind explorations and journey as much as they need a mate. These are souls who generally require a partner who is secure or open enough not to be threatened by the quickly changing Gemini interests or whole-hearted experiments. They also need an individual who can help them ground out in order to penetrate one of their intrigues in depth. Gemini is a dual Sign and as such, frequently project part of themselves when attracted to a potential mate. Hence, the relationship becomes an external way for the Gemini native to work toward merging the two very different aspects which form his or her personality. This can create an intriuging and exciting spark in the beginning of any relationship, but can burn out once the Gemini indiviual has "owned up" to his or her other half, or has simply become bored and retreated back within the self. Intelligent and freedom-loving, versatile and erratic, Gemini individuals tend to be a romantic challenge to any potential mate...and something of a mystery as well. The face of a Gemini is never a "blank page." The expression is either lit by a light from within or eroded by depression and moodiness...although, on the whole, Gemini males appear to be less moody in realtionship that the females. In addition, the emotions of Gemini natives are never at a standstill. In youth, eveything is either marvellous or absolutely awful...a tendency which is somewhat overcome with the experience of age. Gemini individuals are fascinated by all aspects of the concept of love, with the domestic angle being less of a fascination. Gemini subjects will definitely enter into a long-term relationship for passionate love and for no other reason, sweeping aside all older and wiser advice which may be offered. In short, they will act exactly as the heart dictates. Those governed by Gemini are counted among the lucky few who most certainly know the deep expression of being truly "in love." This can sometimes occur more than once during the lifetime of those ruled by this Sign. Gemini natives require a partner who understands them and who will accompany them to the heights of feeling. They need to feel free to wander...both mentally and physically. Thus, if a Gemini individual considers that an institution has become outmoded...a "humdrum" partnership, for example...then he or she will have no reservations about quickly severing all ties and moving on.
A potential mate must keep the Gemini native totally involved and completely busy if he or she wishes to achieve longevity in the union. This is not necessrily an easy task but if it can be accomplished, then it will probably prove to be very worthwhile. Communication is important to Gemini...but it would probably be wise to allow him or her to do most of the talking. Lively conversation, regardless of whether or not it truly leads anywhere, is exceedingly appealing to those governed by Gemini. However, the new and most current topics...perhaps even a bit of gossip every now and again...will fascinate these naturally curious natives. Gemini will be pleased at the suggestion of places to go and the offer of a mate's company on such excursions...and a partner should be on the lookout for anything interesting along the way which he or she could point out to the Gemini individual that the Gemini individual may have not noticed. It is important to note that the relationship never be lacking in newness and variety. A repeat of the same old things and same old approaches...whether it be in terms of greetings, conversation topics, going to the same places, seeing the same friends or playing the same games, etc...will undoubtedly bore a Gemini native to the point of actually grating on his or her nerves. In essence, sameness and routine are sure to end any relationship with a Gemini.
When it comes to long term commitments, few Gemini individuals get involved early in life due to their variable nature. In youth, they seldom occupy their time with only one relationship. When they do commit, it must be with a partner who has a liberal supply of patience and a saving sense of humor in order for the union to survive. However, those governed by Gemini often experience troublesome complications in a partnership and more than one long-term involvement is not uncommon for this Sign.
The Gemini male usually possesses a dual nature that when in active operation, can drive many of those governed by other Signs to the very edge of their patience and sanity. One minute, this man may be happy and the next, he is miserable...almost in the same breath. Since it is virtually impossible to predict which aspect of the Gemini personality may be on display at any given time, private life with this male can easily become a living hell. At worse, men governed by Gemini can sink into the depths of such misery that they lack the mental and spiritual power to control desires, appetites and passions. There is no other Zodiac Sign where opposites are so finely and clearly defined as Gemini. This male can be vicious one day and a veritable saint the next. His lower nature is of the very lowest caliber, while his higher nature reaches almost divine proportions. Only when the lower nature is subdued or dominated by the higher self can the Gemini man become one of the great spiritual giants of the world...joining ranks with the illustrious philosophers, seers, sages and poets. Males ruled by this Sign possess extraordinary intellectuality. They are susceptible to kindness, love and consideration but are given to various moods and may be perceived as persons with a dual personality. The Gemini man can be happy and unhappy...contented and discontented...in rapid succession, with no apparent reason for these changes. This is a male of many contradictions and it will be necessary for a potential partner to play varying roles...sweetheart, mate, parent and pal...in order to keep peace with this man both mentally and socially. There is no doubt that his contradictory tendencies will be well-nigh impossible for him to overcome because they are truly part and parcel of who he is. Hence, it would be foolish for any partner to enter the relationship thinking that he can be altered or saved. There will be nothing to gain here by partners losing their tempers while trying to get the Gemini man to see his idiosyncrasies. Even if he does acknowledge them, he is powerless to effectuate a change. Still, almost anything else that is desired from the Gemini male can be obtained...provided his partner use common sense and patience. For a relationship to last, it will be necessary for any mate to be relatively intellectual. One of the major problems in a relationship with this male is that it may be well-nigh impossible for any mate to get a word in edgeways.
The Gemini female is perhaps the most complex of the entire Zodiac when it comes to love and understanding. Her life will be full of contradictions. Not only does this woman say one thing and then do something else, her interests are so broad and her idealism so great, that she appears change with lightning speed. For example, in religious matters, her nature if often very strong...yet, she frequently does not confine or limit her beliefs to any one religion, sect, doctrine or creed, harboring much respect for all religious teachings and inclined to be very tolerant and liberal. The best ploy for any potential partner is to seduce her by promises of a long-term commitment. If a potential mate cannot do this in good conscience, then it should at least be made plain to the Gemini female that a long-term commitment is not out of the question some time in the future. Aside from this, she will need intellectual stimulation but should be allowed to win arguments. In terms of physical intimacy, the Gemini woman is difficult because she is so unpredictable and changeable...a partner will seldom know how to interpret what she says or what she does. One moment, she may be a siren and the next, a devout nun. There is a natural tendency for females governed by this Sign to crave things they do not possess only to find them mundane and unimportant once the desires have been granted. This woman often appears to be looking for something...hoping to find total happiness. Unfortunately, due to the inherent dual personality of this female, she may never be truly gratified for any length of time. In everything she does, the Gemini woman goes to extremes, almost as though she fails to understand the meaning of moderation. She is constantly nervous and always searching anxiously for something to do. When the lower nature of this female has full sway, she will seem to be obsessed with sensations of dissatisfaction and discontent that nothing in the outside world can explain, but which will cause those around her to feel totally disturbed. For a relationship to last, it will be necessary for any mate to provide constant change is order for the Gemini woman to remain happy. Essentially, the Gemini female is charming and lovable...but elusive.
Positive Aspects Of Gemini In Love:
Joyful - Good-Natured - Broad-Minded - Experimental - Radiant - Friendly - Enthusiastic - Flexible - Gentle
Negative Aspects Of Gemini In Love:
Unreliable - Fickle - Insincere - Dual-Natured - Self-Focused - Restless - Critical - Temperamental
Romantic Style:
Flirtatious - Lively - Fun
Gemini natives enjoy intellectual rapport equally as much as physical intimacy. However, not entirely at ease with their emotions, they tend to over-rationalize romantic feeling. Thus, those governed by Gemini need a partner who is not likely to insist on the whispering of sweet nothings. These can be moody souls and must be stimulated at all levels. The popular impression is that Gemini is brainy, flighty and sharp...but they are quite capable of loyalty provided a mate can match their wit and conversation. Romantic interludes are often a projection of mental images for natives of this Sign and it will be necessary for any partner to remain bright, cheerful, trim and constantly well turned out.
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